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Today I don’t really want to write a long blogpost. I thought I’ll share a quote that made quite an impression on me recently.
I read 5,000 WORDS PER HOUR by Chris Fox a while ago. He talked about making the decision. Then, just get on with it.
We humans often talk excessively about numerous topics. This was a brilliant way to just silence the nonsense.
The quote goes:
‘Get busy living, or get busy dying.’ Chris Fox
And with that, that’s it for today.
Cheers until next time
Hi Everybody,
Welcome back to the blog!
If you’ve watched some of my videos, you might’ve seen pictures and time-lapse clips of me sewing. Today, I thought I’d share a bit about this hobby of mine. For a while, it was more than just a hobby.
I started sewing as a young girl, decades ago now. Like so many others who share their origin stories, mine began with dressing dolls. What really sparked my interest, though, was when my maternal grandmother sewed me two dresses. I wore those dresses until it was painful to squeeze into them! The idea of making clothes we actually wear fascinated me.
When I started school, I became friends with a girl whose mom sewed all their clothes. She and her twin sister always wore matching outfits, and I thought it was incredible! The fabrics were beautiful, and their dresses had lace, ruffles, and other details you’d never find on store-bought clothes.
During sleepovers at their house, I got to watch their mom sew. She let us use scraps of fabric to make clothes for our Barbie dolls. That’s when I fell in love with sewing—it was creative, hands-on, and so satisfying.
My mom wasn’t much of a sewer. She often told me how she bought a Bernina sewing machine in the 1960s. She paid it off at fifty rand a month. Because she didn’t sew much, there wasn’t a lot of fabric to play with at home.
Then, in primary school, I got the chance to take sewing as a subject. I was about 11 years old, and it felt like heaven! Our first task was to cover a shoebox with fabric, paper, or anything we liked. This became our sewing box—the equivalent of our grandmothers’ sewing baskets, where all the tools and supplies were kept.
My box was fabulous (if I do say so myself). I covered it in baby pink gingham. Fine lace was wrapped around it. A small bow was sewn onto the lid. Inside, everything was blue—my favorite color. The pincushion, scissors, measuring tape, and even the seam ripper were all blue.
After that, we learned basic hand-sewing stitches using wool and mesh. These stitches—running, blanket, and stay stitches, among others—are foundational, even in today’s world where machines do so much.
We also tried cross-stitch and a type of embroidery I’ve never seen elsewhere. I still have my cross-stitch tray cover. It features white floss on navy gingham. The design is Christmas-themed with candles and festive decorations. It was far beyond my skill level at the time, but I loved every stitch.

Later, we tackled sewing patterns. I remember making a simple summer outfit: a half-full skirt and a strappy top. I wore it all summer, though my changing body ensured it only fit for that one season. Years later, when my mom cleared out her house, I found scraps of that fabric. Seeing them again was bittersweet—perhaps a Barbie outfit is in its future.
Unfortunately, my dad didn’t see sewing as a career path and wouldn’t let me continue the subject in high school.
What Does This Have to Do with Writing?
Interestingly, sewing and writing have a lot in common. Both require creative inspiration, a fair amount of planning, and dedication. In sewing, you need to know your fabrics, tools, and techniques. In writing, you need to understand character and plot development, grammar, and genre conventions.
Both crafts also demand time. Writing a novel, even if you can write a thousand words in an hour, takes fifty-plus hours at minimum. Similarly, sewing a garment isn’t just about cutting fabric—it’s about planning, measuring, pressing, and assembling.
The saying “measure twice, cut once” applies to both. A well-constructed garment takes careful preparation, just like a well-written story. And thankfully, in both sewing and writing, there’s room to revise—whether that’s ripping out a seam or editing a draft.
That’s it from me today—thanks for stopping by!
This week’s snippets from my day, writing, editing and working my way through creating my stories and books to be published on various platforms.
Cheers!
Happy Friday everybody!
Some banana chocolate muffins are in the oven. The aroma causes my mouth to water. It’s just the perfect Friday, and the cloudy, cool weather outside adds to that.
I thought I would write about the weather today.
You read that right, the weather.
It’s usually the subject that uncomfortable conversations float to, right?
Maybe.
Maybe not.
Michael Singer, author of The Untethered Life, loves using weather to illustrate allowance. He explains letting things be. He talks about our human tendency to get our knickers in a knot over things we have no control over.
Think about it: We fill uncomfortable silences by complaining about the weather. The weather determines our moods. We use the weather as excuses. Weather upsets society, safety, etc.
And we have no control over it.
Talking about wasting precious energy, health, peace and such on something completely outside our control.
We humans are quite fascinating, don’t you think?
After preaching like that, I want to just say that I don’t mind rainy and cool to cold weather.
My favorite seasons are therefore autumn and spring.
The colors of both seasons are amazing!
My energy levels are great in both seasons.
It’s not work to get out in nature during these seasons.
It’s also the reminder I need to remember that every aspect of the human condition happens in seasons.
I’ve deleted most of this post already because I tend to become super philosophical when I start delving into subjects. Such as weather. And seasons.
The aim is fluff and ease for this post.
We’re in our summer season now. In the North West province where we live, most of our year consists of moderately warm weather. Summers can get bloody hot and winters not really warm enough for a coat. Maybe a cardigan or hoody but not really a lovely wool coat with scarfs and gloves. Bummer.
My sewing nerd loves the beautiful coat patterns available every year. However, it’s just not worth all that work. It’s too hot to wear them.
Maybe I will sew up a proper coat when we visit Europe or Canada. It gets really cold there. Then I can complete it with lining and such. One can dream.
During our summer season, we also have our rains. When our rain season is healthy and frequent like it should be, the summers are bearable.
When we moved to this area nearly a decade ago, it was during a seven-year drought. It sounds so biblical, doesn’t it!?During that time, it was extremely hot. The dashboard of our car melted and bubbled. It left us with the funniest-looking dashboard!! During that time we had animal feed shortages, water shortages and temperatures of 40 to 48 degrees celsius.
Mind you, in that time we had very few bush fires.
The North West province is also where you will find part of the Bushveld.
One of my upcoming romance series will be set in the Bushveld. In that series, I hope to introduce some of the characteristics nature has here. Maybe. Let’s see.
I’ve digressed again.
I prefer the autumn and spring. Both these seasons are fairly hot. One can easily lose track of the change of seasons. You need to look at the calendar rather than the thermometer.
Both seasons run into and out of winter with a good month or so, eg. Autumn should start March and run to May but it tends to run into July. Spring should start September but usually starts Late July to August.
It’s a running joke in our house that winter is about 2 weeks long here. I have 2 weeks then to wear scarves and gloves.
Summary of this post?
I love cool wet weather.
What is your favourite weather? My sister-in-law loves summer. I. DO. NOT. UNDERSTAND. THAT. INSANITY. And why do you love your favourite weather?
Until next time everybody. Make it a good one!
Cheers
Hi my dear readers
Welcome to this brand new story.
Book Description: Undercurrents of Deception
Secrets always rise to the surface.
Sadie thought her life was simple-school, lifeguarding, and navigating the peculiar dynamics of her small family. But when the brooding, enigmatic Miles from the notorious Harlow family begins shadowing her every move, Sadie’s world unravels. A cryptic note, hidden truths, and whispers of a father she’s never known pull her into a web of lies she can’t escape.
As Sadie and Miles delve into their families’ tangled pasts, they uncover a shocking connection that could shatter everything they thought they knew. The closer they get to the truth, the more dangerous their journey becomes. Forbidden romance sparks between them, but secrets have a way of drowning even the strongest bonds.
When betrayal threatens to tear them apart, Sadie must decide: protect the family that raised her or risk everything to uncover the truth about who she really is.
In Undercurrents of Deception, love and loyalty collide with mystery and danger. Perfect for fans of suspenseful young adult romance with a hint of danger and forbidden desire, this Wattpad serial will leave you gasping for more at the end of every episode.
Dive in-if you dare.
A little bit more about this story:
GENRE: Mystery, Young Adult, Romance
THEMES: Identity, Family Secrets, Forbidden Love
HELP ME NAME THE CHARACTERS!
I have the following characters in mind:
Protagonist: A sweet, brave high school girl (unnamed for now) who lives with her “dad” and “brother” (both of whom are not biologically related to her). She’s a school lifeguard with a penchant for adventure.
Possible love interest: The mysterious bad boy from the rich, infamous family, who lives in a mansion with only the servants. His family has a complicated past, including hidden connections to the MC’s family.
Her father figure: A caring but secretive man who raised her as his own.
Her brother figure: Protective, but may know more than he lets on about their true family situation.
The story will come together in possibly 14 episodes of roughly 1300 words.
Even though I have a rough idea about the story, it would be fun to write it with your input, so please feel free to share as well go.
The story will be updated to Wattpad every week and here on the blog as part of the #BAS Subscriptions I have set up here on my website.
Until the 1st episode
Cheers
Another week in my life. Hopelessly writing unproductive but next week I try again!
Cheers!
This post I dedicate to Lilly. I miss the dog. She drove me to insanity and back on an average day with her sheer enthusiasm for life!

Hubby fell in love with Whippets years ago and we found ourselves 2 bitches. They were really cute and cuddly. They slept on our bed and went through normal puppy training. They grew and got bigger. But they never grew out of their toddler shenanigans!
Since I’m your perpetual student, I started researching the bread to learn more about them. Things like health problems, trainability, temperament, etc. Nothing. Nada. Not a thing was available about these dogs. Today there’s quite a bit available about the breed. I sometimes wholeheartedly agree with the information. Occasionally, I call the writer out on the crap they peddle. With that said, I thought I’d share some of the things we learned on the job about this breed:
At 11 years old, Rose is still going strong. She’s prone to growths and tumors, so she has an annual visit to the dentist. He removes them, only to have them regrow. According to the vet, they’re benign. She’s my sunshine, this dog, and I love her to bits.

Her sister, Lilly, died 2 years ago at 9. Lilly ate everything and anything. Tragically, she ingested poison. A gang of a-holes went on a killing spree to kill dogs in the neighbourhood. The vet tried what he could but in the end, she died. The cruelty that humans rain down on animals is staggering at best.
Until next time everybody.
Cheers
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